11.11.11..the most memorable date...is it????

11 Nov 2011...the date that every newlyweds anticipate to be married. Like what my bestfriend,Alin says.."date artis murahan kawin"...hahahaha. Ok,, today there are few of my friends and relative is getting married. They chose this date as in to be the most memorable date ever. Is it? Is it gonna be the most memorable date ever since half a thousand of people chose this same date to get married as well? I wonder...hmm...oh well, they should make the ceremony the joyous and memorable day ever instead of looking at the date.

Honestly, I have no issues or against people with wanting to get married on this particular date. Is just i do have my own thoughts and opinions on this. I've always imagine my wedding to be the most fantastic and fun without wondering whether the date is appropriate or my dowry should be the same amount as the date itself. Oh gosh...oh yes..i have this thing about people love to give or ask for their "duit hantaran" according to their birthdate. Ok..like why??? Is that all you worth it for? Don't you know that we woman are priceless? There shouldn't be any price tag on us,for God sake. Can u imagine, if your birthdate is on the 30/12/1976...so the groom needs to give equivalent to "THREE HUNDRED ONE THOUSAND TWO HUNDRED NINETEEN AND CENTS SEVENTY SIX". Damn difficult for the groom representative to prounounce isn't it? Yes..yes...u may have this kind of "duit hantaran" if you are married to a billionaire but not to a normal executives or GM or in fact CEO. The CEO may have to sell off one of his houses in order to pay for the "duit hantaran"..hehe.

Back to the topic...11 Nov 2011...:). Seriously,I have nothing against it. But it does tickles me a bit to know that the date is so much important than the marriage itself. When i ask most of them on why they chose this date, they simply replied that it will be easier to remember their anniversaries. Ok,point taken but since the wedding itself is the most memorable moments for you, should you not remember the date and when? How can you forget THE most important day in your life? And for us women,its a once in a lifetime moment ( if in case we don't have the intention to ever married another one la..hehe)so do we need to give a lame excuse for it? Why can't they just say it "oh because...its a good number or everybody is doing it as well". Oh well,it may be embarassing enough for them if they admit the real reason for it...ahahaha.

I kept reminding myself that the wedding should be fun and should not be stagnant with guests coming in need to uphold certain protocols during the ceremony itself. I hate it if i have to attend a wedding at a Hotel. All of us been seated and we have to wait for the groom and the bridegrooms to enter before we can eat,worse of all we will be seated next to a stranger whom we do not know which side are they from or are they close or distant relative or just an acquaintance. We basicly were forced to make a conversation to the next person although a simple 'hello' will do but still it will be a bit uncomfortable, when we need to pretend to be lady..i mean a real Lady,mind you. No fidgeting while seating, eat with your mouth close (that i agree, obviously as i could not tolerate people munch their food noisily),converse with next person with a tiny voice where as you are very loud person...oh dear...i have always dread this situation will happen among my friends or cousins while attending MY wedding. I do not want them to be a puppet. I want them to enjoy at my wedding for sure.

So,although it is kind of late that at my age now to imagine fun and memorable day ever on my wedding but who cares..i am still not married and i will make sure that when that day comes..i will not bother about the date and definitely gonna have fun with my close friends and relative. People may do whatever they want on my wedding...no protocols whatsoever although it will be held in a hotel. No 'bersanding' as i have always fretted to the day that i have to look like a doll and was publicly been display for everybody to see and gossips whether my wedding gown is pretty or whether the pelamin is big and spacious enough or beautiful enough...and yes,not forgetting people will comment this.."the pelamin is too small for the photographer to shoot photos"..gosh..who cares!
And also,i will make sure there is space for my elderly relatives to "lepak" which i definitely call that space as "LAY-PARK"..hhehe. I guess most of you have attended a wedding where you can only sit there for only 15 minutes. Eat and then you have to leave as there not enough chairs to sit and "lepak".

Oh well...who cares about the date? When you have met THE ONE...i don't think the date is important anymore. What's important is that there is new future and life is awaiting for you.

So,for those who is getting married today...May Allah bless you all and happy getting married today...:)..enjoy the 11.11.11....

Cheerios

Very the rajin...maybe..hehehe

Ok..I am very the rajin today. Not because i wanted to write more in this blog,its just that there is something in my brain wishes to splurt out from it.

My good friend,Elaine has been asking me when will I be continuing my story? Honestly, I could not remember which story that it was half way done..hahaha. So,when she mentioned the story line,the incident came up into my mind immediately although I have been wanting to erased it from the list of my brain RAM.
I suddenly remembered that due to that "ONE" particular incident that had happened 10 years ago that initiates me wanting to write. Like I used to tell to myself,"to be a good writer..u need to write what you know". But then, does my story will be accepted by the public? Oh well...a promise is a promise. I have promise Elaine that I will continued it no matter what.

So,give me few days to gear up myself to continue the story. At least I should finish it rite?

Cheerios...:)

Christina Perri - A Thousand Years (Official Music Video)

I dedicated this song to him which he obviously do not know that I am posting this..hahaha..:)...yeah..it has been A Thousand Years that i have been waiting for you. May Allah grant my prayers soon when he is back next year..hmm...keep my promise..shall wait for you no matter what..:)

Short stories...hmm

Ok..I need to start to write my short stories again. I have this vivid imagination of a love story about families,friends and lovers. The sacrifice in friendship.It is in my head but I am not ready to publish it out yet...in writing i mean.

I have always wanted to write but I can never concentrate on it. Ok,so this time I will try writing again. Hope this time the story will have an end.

Ok..again, I have no idea why is it I am so easily went blank with ideas. I used to have a lot things to say in here..

So, i guess i need to gear up and read more books to build up my ideas...:)...

till next time...cheerios..